Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Arrggghhh!!!

My posting frequency here has become so irregular these days. I used to churn out one post after another everyday but of late, I'm only managing one post in about 4-5 days! No, I haven't lost the desire to blog, I still get online and blog hop everyday to keep abreast of what's been happening in your worlds but when it comes to writing a post of my own, I'm just too darn lazy to think. LOL!

The weekend went by pretty darn quick. The extra day of holiday we had yesterday didn't help much. It's a good thing I'm at home right now on half day leave :D The leave wasn't really planned. Besides I'm kinda pissed for having to take this half day leave and nothing came out of it. Let me explain (I promise to keep this short ... LOL!).

My younger boy was supposed to attend this art competition being organized by the Petronas gas station near his school. The competition is supposed to start at 2.00pm today and he wanted to go straight from school but his mommy asked him to come home first, grab some lunch, let her know what time the competition will be over and then get his older brother to accompany him to the gas station which is just a 5 minute walk away.

Now, the little fellow didn't really agree to that cos he said he wanted to go straight there after school and didn't want to come home and have his older brother accompany him there. He wanted to go by himself. Both wifey and me were not agreeable to the idea of him having to go on his own. And since he so adamant about not wanting his older brother to accompany him, I told wifey I'll take half day leave and come home and fetch him and wait there until the competition is over.

So I leave work around 12.30pm and head for home and just as I am about to drive in the porch wifey calls me and asks me where I am. But she didn't really need an answer for that cos she could hear my car driving in. Apparently she called me to say that the little fellow decided not to go for the competition because he wanted to go straight from school and came home throwing a tantrum because of that. According to wifey, he went upstairs, wrote a note, folded it into an airplane and threw it to her downstairs telling her to call me and ask me not to come home.

Wow, how thoughtful of him but he could have thought of that much earlier and not when I've already taken leave and arrived home! I was not at all amused with him and his attitude and wifey could see it on my face. Well, to be honest, wifey was even more unamused with him than I was. Lets just say that the two of them are not going to be on speaking terms anytime soon. In fact I'd advise him to buy some safety equipment even ... hahaha ...

Sometimes that boy can really get on one's nerves. He has a habit of sulking and throwing tantrums when he doesn't get his way. I know he's only a little boy and all that but sometimes he goes just a wee bit too far with his tantrums. He has been known to shout back at the both of us and slam doors, which is really the wrong thing to do, more so with wifey cos that's one thing she can't stand, especially from the boys. And he's really stubborn as a brick too!

I'm not really complaining about having to take leave but I'm just upset with his attitude. It's not like we didn't let him go for the competition. All we wanted was for him to come home after school seeing as how there was still so much time before the competition starts, get some lunch, maybe freshen up a bit and I was willing to drive him there even though it was just across the road and to even wait till he's done. And he comes home and starts his nonsense about not wanting to go ... siggghhh ... kids!

I don't think I was that difficult to handle when I was a kid (well, maybe the sulking part, I was pretty good at that ... LOL!). Sometimes I really don't understand that boy. Well, as his mommy always says to him,

'People who sulk often tend to lose out on the good things in life ...'


It's his loss. I know he was looking forward to the competition and was eyeing the top prize even. And I believe he would have at least won something if not the top prize cos that boy has talent. Oh well, maybe next time. At least the house is quiet since he's still sulking away ... LOL!
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24 comments:

  1. OMG!!!! hahaaa...your boy sounds like my son too..sulking..then shouting..then tell me he doesnt want me to be his mommy anymore!! and that happened when he didn't get what he wants..there was one time, he threatened me, he doesn't want to stay with us, and what i did was, open our door and tell him he can go out if he wants..hahahaa!! My son was so scared when he saw smokes come out from my head...!! LOL!!
    So..i think..our kids are just stuborn...probably its our fault..did we pampered them too much??? *sigh*

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  2. OMG, kids. I'd recall to be an obedient kid. Though I owez get bullied by my siblings =_="

    I'm yet to experience having my own kid but I've baby sit for my friend once but omg, I can say that I prefer kids in their happy playing mood ahhahaha XD

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  3. I remember my parents used to ignore me when I sulked as a kid.

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  4. oh my dad was so strict that we wouldn't dare to talk back no matter how bad we wanted to.. Tali pinggang weii!! takut!! LOL!

    But then again, buddy is that way too.. exactly lah like that! because of merajuk, they miss out on the good things when all could be well if they just listen to us, kan? hahaha..

    but i soo feel for him for not being able to go. *sigh* but what to do right? it was his choice..

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  5. "The weekend went by pretty darn quick. The extra day of holiday we had yesterday didn't help much...."

    i also feel the same..why ah??

    your boy wants to be independent ba..but scary la to let them especially in kl..lucky i survived kl..

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  6. Hmm, he just want to have his own way. and when cannot get it, throwing tantrum and create cold war look good for little kid.

    But as parents, it is understandable to be careful with lots of children kidnapping/abduction etc. Our children never understand our predicament. Dont we ever been rebellous to our parents during our time? :p Only when we become a parent, then we know what our parents have been through

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  7. Kadus Mama - LOL! I think if my son said he wanted to leave the house, wifey would probably do the same thing as you and open the door for him!

    Yeah, I guess part of the blame for their stubbornness probably comes from us.

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  8. Maslight - Wah, you were an obedient kid? I envy your parents ... hehehe ... My little fellow sometimes just loves to annoy both wifey and me.

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  9. Terra Shield - My wife does that to the little fellow too. She says it's the best way to handle the situation.

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  10. Shemah - Oh the belt, I remember that quite well cos I was belted by my mom once ... adui sakit nyer! LOL!

    I did pity him for missing the competition cos I know he wanted to go. But it really was his own fault. I even drove all the way home to fetch him some more!

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  11. Deanna - I guess the saying 'time flies when you're having fun' sure rings true, ya? My weekend was gone in a flash! But I did have fun though :D

    Independent or not, I don't trust him crossing the roads on his own here. I've seen the way people drive here and I'd rather be safe than sorry ...

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  12. Rose - He tends to thrown tantrums quite a bit these days ... siggghhh ...

    I guess you're right, they're just kids and don't really understand that what we do is for their own good.

    Wifey and me always tell him, we hope when he grows up and gets married and have kids, he'll have a little boy just as naughty as he is ... LOL!

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  13. My elder boy will kinda behave like that at times at drive me up my nerve until I get so mad at him :(:(

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  14. Kids go through phases. I remember when mine were about 11-12 years old, they behaved that way too. i thought "mati liao, have to put up with temper tandrums for the rest of my life!". then when they grew a little older, all that stopped. Now from time to time, they show black face which annoys the hell out of me but as long as I leave them alone, it'll pass really quickly.

    Don't worry. Yours will be fine. It's just a phase.

    Funny how my younger one would refuse to go somewhere if his older brother is going. I think it is a sibling thing. My older son tends to be bossy over the younger one, that's why.

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  15. wahh!!! ur lil boy sure is stubborn! Reminds me of myself when I was much younger. I was the forever daredevil stubborn one n my younger bro the goodyx2 to shoes!

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  16. Tantrums? Oh my! Lately, Shern is also showing the ugly side of him and his unnecessary tantrums. I so hate it!

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  17. Should I be grateful I don't have kids? And a boy at that? Maybe not. I have a nephew who really drives us all nuts. But he's changed while he's growing up.

    If you and your wife could talk to him why he's acting like that. He must have something inside him that he couldn't tell.

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  18. Oh dear. Kids hey! And he communicated through a paper areoplane? Who knows why kids do stuff? I know I done some funny stuff when I was a kid. I hope he's okay now and not sulking.

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  19. Janice - LOL! I know the feeling. But I guess they're just being kids ...

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  20. BT - You're right about the phases. I think I was like that when I was young too ... LOL! Well, my kids haven't mastered the art of showing 'black faces' just yet, but I'm sure they will soon enough ... hahaha ...

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  21. Jen - LOL! I pity your mom ... hahaha ... I was the quiet one when I was a kid :D

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  22. Shern's Mom - I guess all kids get into this phase eventually, ya?

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  23. Marlene - That boy of ours is just stubborn and persistent at times. I hope he'll grow out of this phase soon :D

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  24. The World According To Me - LOL! Kids do the strangest things at times ... Oh, he's back to normal already :D

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