Wifey used to tell me that when my younger boy comes back from school he always complains of being tired. I normally drive them to school in the mornings and they walk home from school in the afternoons. I live not too far from the boys school, just a short 5-10 minute walk.
But wifey says that my younger boy would always come home from school red faced and panting and complaining that he's exhausted. Sometimes he's so exhausted that he'll forsake his lunch and take a nap first. The poor guy.
Then a few days ago, I was checking the little fellows bag. Wifey said that some of stitches were coming loose and to see if I could mend it for him. Now, the moment I picked up his bag, I almost snapped my spine! It felt like I was trying to lift a sackful of bricks.
Just what the heck does he have in his bag that is so heavy? I decided to open his bag and take a look and I discovered that the little genius packs his bag with every single text, work and exercise book he has, not to mention his pencil case, drink bottle, his cap and even his raincoat!
I look at wifey and ask her why in heavens name does he take all his books to school? Doesn't he have a timetable? I'm pretty sure he doesn't need at least half the books in there. No wonder he's exhausted by the time he walks home. In fact I'm amazed that he can even lug that knapsack and reach home without fainting halfway. I would have fainted at the weight of his bag.
Wifey tells me that he has a timetable but he's too darn lazy to arrange his books and take only what he needs so the little genius just takes every book he has with him to school. Good god, during my school days, I hardly took any books to school. The lighter I could make my bag, the better it was.
In fact, me and my classmate would make a deal where he brought half the books and I brought the other half and we would share during lessons. That would lighten the loads of our bags by half. Well, the class teacher wasn't too pleased but she didn't make too much of a fuss. At least we brought some books to school ... LOL!
I mean, I was lazy back in my school days and I'm not surprised that my little fellow is lazy but at least be lazy on the smart side and not suffer and lug a bag that feels like it has 32 pieces of bricks in it and then some.
That boy is a real lazy little fellow. I found out wifey actually keeps on nagging him to arrange his books according to the school timetable but he never does it so much so that she's fed up of telling him already. She says if he wants to carry that darn heavy bag to and from school, then it's up to him.
Well, I didn't take none of that. I whipped out his timetable and arranged his books for school the next day and I actually managed to reduce the weight if his bag by more than half. I called him up to his room and gave him a lecture about laziness with wifey snickering in the background.
She said that I'd be better off explaining what los cabos is to a baby than trying to talk to him about his laziness. And she even said that he'd probably take all his books to school again the day after tomorrow cos he would just be too lazy to arrange them. She does have a point though cos he would most probably do it too.
He's so lazy at times that he'd rather suffer and lug all his books to school than to take just five minutes of his time sitting there and arranging just what books he really needs for school.
The strange thing is you would think that having to lug a heavy bag to and from school would firm up his body but it's the complete opposite. He's putting on more weight growing sideways than upwards and his weight is even catching up to me and I'm 42 years old at that! He's even starting to look like a Michelin boy again.
Oh well, I tried my best. If he wants to lug around a bag that weighs a tons then it's his choice. No wonder wifey gave up nagging him about it. But then, the amount of books the school requires these days for lessons is mind boggling. For a single subject a minimum of one or two work books, one text book and one exercise book is needed. I don't remember having that much books in my school days. The again, I didn't bring much books to school to begin with.
Maybe I should get that boy one of those bags with wheels on it. He can just drag that bag home every afternoon. Then again maybe not cos knowing that boy, he might just sit on it and slide his way home. Trust me, he's liable to do something like that! He's as mischievous as he is lazy!
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OMG LOL. Maybe check on him everyday to arrange his books according to timetable? Or use reverse psychology? Hey I remember going to school with heavy bag before. I can't remember why but I swear I packed my bags according to timetable all the time. I don't recall going to school with light bag hahahaha. Oh gawd, all those bricks burden my back. I'm starting to feel effect from all that at this age (hahahaha kidding). I carry more heavy stuff than normal ppl my size uhuk~ I need to straighten my back, I'm slouchy. Heck, even when I sit in front of the computer, I never can straighten my back anymore lol XD got used to it. Damn bad habit.
ReplyDeleteYour son sounds like a funny kid. LOL... I just imagined this little boy sliding on one of those trolley bags like a sled.
ReplyDeleteWho knows, the kid might grow up to be a great mountaineer!
ReplyDeleteMaslight - With that boy, it's no use la. He'll just revert to taking all his books to school again.
ReplyDeleteI went to school with the lightest bag possible. The less books I had, the better ... LOL!
Terra - Funny, naughty, stubborn and extremely bad tempered ... LOL!
ReplyDeleteHe would probably do it you know, sliding along on that trolley bag!
Buzzing J - A great mountaineer? Cool :D Wait a minute, do mountaineers make loads of money? LOL!
ReplyDeleteQuite a strain to the back i must say... and not too good for posture.. (urmm.. just tell him.. a TOO heavy load is not too great for the prostrate) like la he's going to care about his prostrate at his age..
ReplyDeletetough kid i must say :) even if u get him one of those bags with wheels.. if he's dragging it 10 mins to come back each day.. u might need to replace the wheels in a mths time.. probably a trolley (with big wheels) wud be a better option.. hehhehehe
Oh My God! My son does the same thing. He carries ALL OF HIS BOOKS ALL OF THE TIME! I am actually concerned he's going to really HURT himself!
ReplyDeleteBuddy! I'd be laughing but the situation does seem serious :) Maybe give him a smaller bag so that he is forced to take lesser books and adhere to the timetable. DOn't know what else to say...kids will be kids and do the oddest things. Cheers bub!
ReplyDeletehow old is your boy? u know, last time i was so lazy to bring textbooks to sch everyday i just kept the heavy textbooks in the drawer :P so i didnt have to bring it everyday. ^_^
ReplyDeletep/s: the books u had those days were definitely a lot lesser than the kids of today.. :P
I was so lazy to bring my books back and forth, I left them at school. Lucky I was in a single session school and nobody took my books away!
ReplyDeleteAnyway, I didn't do much studying outside of class so leaving my books behind wasn't a big deal for me. But kids, don't try this! LOL
Anny - It is quite a strain. My back nearly gave way when I tried to lift his bag! No use scaring him about prostrate and all that cos that lil fellow never listens one!
ReplyDeleteHmmm, maybe I should hijack a Tesco trolley for him, that might work ... LOL!
Meleah - I have the same concerns too. That's why I tried reducing his book load but he's back to carrying all his stuff again ...
ReplyDeleteAdrian - A smaller bag, now that's a good idea.
ReplyDeleteIn fact, remember when we were studying together, we hardly had books at all. Our bags were so small that it was basically redundant carrying a bag ... LOL!
But you're right, kids will be kids!
Xin - He's 11 this year. Actually I don't know why he just doesn't leave his books at school since he's in a single session school.
ReplyDeleteYup, my days we hardly had books ... LOL!
Lina - Good for you, I was in a double session school so no such luck. But just like you I didn't really bother with my books cos I hardly ever studied ... LOL!
ReplyDeleteIve tried a million times to get my son to carry LESS in his backpack! He just wont listen! but, I guess I cant expect a 13 year old to listen to reason!
ReplyDeleteMeleah - LOL! I don't think you can get kids of ANY age to listen to reason!
ReplyDeleteThose were the exact problem I had with my son when he was in primary school ... he was not only lazy to pack his bag, he used it as a rubbish bin too ... arghhh!!!
ReplyDeleteThen when he went into secondary, it was the total opposite. Almost empty-handed to school! Now at 18 and in college, seems quite balance already.
The point is don't worry too much. They'll realise soon enough on their own.
I think I am one of what you termed smart lazy people. I never liked to carry heavy stuff so I found ways and means of getting rid of heavy stuff and putting the bare essentials in my school bag.
ReplyDeleteNowadays I try to park my car the closest possible to the shop I'm frequenting so that I wouldn't have to carry the load for a long distance.
Just tell your son to be careful for his own sake - carrying such heavy loads at that age could cause his spine to grow curved - scoliosis. It's no joke! My sisters went through hell because of it. You could show him pictures of deformed spines or humped people - maybe it could knock some sense into him.
I can see myself in your little genius, although in my time, we didn't have so many books so I carried all my school things in school everyday, lol!
ReplyDeleteMaybe you should get your son a cabin bag. :-)
hehehe at least he doesnt get scold by his teacher for not bringing his books cos he has ALL them in his bag EVERY day. But yeah...not good for his posture la.
ReplyDeleteWenny - Rubbish bin? LOL! Thank god my little fellow hasn't gone to that extent yet.
ReplyDeleteYes, I suppose they'll eventually start realizing that carrying a heavy is not constructive at all!
Zen - Good for you :D I just tried not to bring books to school at all ... LOL!
ReplyDeleteI don't think showing him pictures of people with bad back problems is going to work, that boy is just not scared at all.
Marlene - We didn't have much books to bring to school back in my time and I still didn't want to bring books to school ... LOL!
ReplyDeleteCarol - I don't think he's afraid of getting scolding by his teacher, he's just more on the lazy side ... LOL!
ReplyDeleteYou could always imply to him that carrying all that weight in his bag is not gonna help him grow tall ;)
ReplyDeletePerky - He is NOT growing taller, more like sideways so that isn't going to work ... LOL!
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